What is Unconditional Parenting?
It’s a perspective, a mindset, a paradigm for living with and raising children that focuses on giving them a true experience of love, connection, trust, and respect- without conditions.
HI, I'M BLIMIE HELLER.
I used to go to sleep most nights feeling awful about the way I parented that day. I realized I was stuck in a cycle I couldn't find a way out of. And that is when I became a mom with a mission.
I searched and searched... until I came across the concepts of unconditional parenting.
It resonated with me immediately! But I also had my concerns... so I delved into the research on child development, into the science of attachment, into neuroscience and more until I felt all my concerns were addressed and I was entirely comfortable.
Implementing it was so much harder than I thought it would be - I had to fight YEARS of conditioning. Years of believing parenting was supposed to be a certain way and raising children was supposed to look a certain way. I had to confront my inner child, my ego, and do internal work. I had to unlearn so many things and relearn so many others. I had to learn how to listen to myself and trust my intuition.
Then, with every passing day, I started seeing shifts. In myself. In my interactions with my daughter. In my daughter's interaction with me. I was slowly getting the hang of it! (I'm still getting the hang of it as my children grow. The learning never ends)
I discovered a path of parenting that felt right in every way and my passion for it couldn't be contained. This is why I share it with all of you. Welcome to the journey!
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